Saturday, June 1, 2013

What is the Difference Between Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy?



What is the difference between hypnosis and hypnotherapy?
My daughter asked me this question and I decided to answer her question here.  

Hypnosis is a natural, suggestible, focused state of conscious awareness. 
 
You go in and out of hypnosis on a daily basis - when you daydream, when you allow your emotions to be affected by a movie, a piece of music, or even someone’s conversation. I use the word allow because I believe you’re always in control of your experience.

You’re in a hypnotic state when you become immersed in a book.  

I can relate to this from personal experience - when I was growing up, after school, I was responsible for preparing the meals for my family because my mom was at her place of business, I read while I was cooking (back then, reading was a PASSIONATE past time), I was captivated by what I was reading and was oblivious of what was going on around me.  I had to give up reading while I was cooking because on too many occasions I was brought back to my present surrounding by burning food.

How about you – what’s your experience with every day hypnosis?

Have you ever driven home (obeying all the rules of the road) and wondered how you got there?  Some people experience this on the freeway; it’s called “Highway Hypnosis.” This phenomenon has to do with individuals driving safely, and responding effectively to the conditions of the freeway, but miss their exit or arrive to their destination wondering how they got there.

The hypnotic zone

Athletes use hypnosis to accomplish great feats. They call it the zone. Have you ever been in the zone? Stellar, effortless, performances happen when you’re in the “zone.” It's the mom who has to stay focused as she juggles crying children, dinner, homework and balancing the check book. It's the athlete who makes it to the finish line in severe pain. It's passing the bar exam in spite of a throbbing head ache.

Another common every day hypnosis occurrence 

Have you ever had someone say to you “why are you looking at me, or how can I help you” (or something along those lines) because you were lost in thought while staring at him/her?  You were experiencing natural hypnosis.

What is hypnotherapy?

There’s controversy surrounding the term “hypnotherapy.” Some feel that hypnotherapy is not therapy, and others just don’t believe in hypnosis.

Hypnotherapists use hypnosis therapeutically to help their clients make powerful changes such as giving up smoking and other bad habits, overcoming shyness, low self-esteem and lack of confidence. They can help you to pass various exams, overcome the fear of public speaking, and excel at sports and a lot more.

The first stage – consultation

Hypnotherapist and possible clients have an in-depth conversation to determine their challenge and how they can best help them. 

The second stage – possible client is now a client

 The hypnotherapist and client agree on the number of sessions and other goal achieving tools. 

The third stage - sessions

During sessions hypnotherapists help clients achieve the state of hypnosis and give suggestions for desired results. In this state you’ll imagine, picture, feel, visualize, and/or even taste your desired outcome. With repetition what you desire becomes part of your everyday life. 

Hypnotherapy can be used to complement other forms of therapy. Do your homework when choosing a hypnotherapist. You can become your own hypnotherapist by using self-hypnosis. Get step by step instructions here.

I attended The Hypnosis Motivation Institute, a 45 year old, non-profit, nationally accredited college of hypnotherapy, in Tarzana, CA. I graduated as a certified hypnotherapist in 1991. However, hypnotherapy has never been my only career/business focus. 


Other resources

Ask. Com has an in depth article about hypnotherapy

It’s a wrap

Do you have any lingering questions about hypnosis and hypnotherapy? 

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Adalia John - Hypnotherapist, mindset mastery mentor and confidence solutions coach. I help my clients to use the power of their mind to achieve their personal and `professional goals.

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Friday, May 10, 2013

The Relationship Between Relaxation and Hypnotherapy




There is an important relationship between hypnotherapy and 

  relaxation


Relaxation defined - state of being free from tension and anxiety.

Hypnotherapy - using hypnosis for therapeutic purposes.

Relaxation is a necessary component of hypnotherapy. Hypnotherapists use relaxation techniques to help their clients achieve the state of hypnosis. 

Hypnosis is a deeply relaxed, highly suggestible, focused state of mind.

Relaxation quiets the mind and the body and opens the door to the trance state of hypnosis. Hypnosis makes it possible to by-pass the critical mind and access the subconscious mind. When the client is in this trance state the hypnotherapist makes positive suggestions that can lead to powerful changes (that the client wants) on a subconscious level.

Breathing is the key to relaxation.
Relaxation is the key to hypnosis.
Hypnosis is the key to the mind.
The mind is the key to change.
Suggestion is the key to specific change.

Some of the relaxation techniques used by hypnotherapists are:

Progressive muscle relaxation - the hypnotherapist guides the client to systematically tighten and relax various muscles.

Guided imagery - the client is guided through storytelling and mental pictures to achieve the desired state.

Deep breathing exercises - the clients focus on their breath and their breathing.

Relaxation is at the core of these techniques. Most hypnotherapists, including me, use a combination of these techniques to help their clients enter the state of hypnosis.


The difference between relaxation and hypnosis

Mark Tyrell, of the Uncommon Knowledge,  had this to say about hypnosis and relaxation -  "In truth, hypnosis is not inevitably a relaxation state, although it can be. Hypnosis is really a state of highly focused attention." 

I believe that relaxation opens the door to hypnosis. However, relaxation in and of itself will not bring about psychological and physical changes, nor help you bypass the critical mind to make changes subconsciously. Hypnosis does! Your hypnotherapist will make suggestions to change


In general, hypnotherapy can help with vocational and a vocational issues. Some issues may require psychological and/or medical referrals. 

Summary 

Relaxation calms your mind and body. Hypnosis is a very relaxed, highly suggestible, focused state of mind. Hypnotherapy helps you to use your mind for positive change.

If you want to learn more about hypnosis/hypnotherapy - visit this link http://www.hypnosistarzana.com
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Sunday, April 21, 2013

One of The Biggest Myths About Hypnosis






I have family members and friends who are afraid of hypnosis. They believe that hypnosis is a form of mind control.

Hypnosis being a form or mind control is one of the biggest myths out there.


If the the only form of hypnotism you’ve been exposed to is the stage hypnotist and the Hollywood type of hypnotism, I understand why you would believe this myth.

The old Hollywood hypnosis movies were based on the misconception that hypnosis was hocus-pocus. Many of the movies depicted unscrupulous men using hypnosis to take advantage of women. Positive portrayals of hypnosis in movies are few and far between. Recently, there has been a couple – Shallow Hal 2001 and Trance 2013.

The biggest influence that most people are exposed to is the stage hypnotist.

The stage hypnotist is a performer who uses hypnosis to entertain. He/she knows how to pick the perfect candidate – not everyone is a good candidate for the hypnotist’s antics, not even me, and I’m a hypnotherapist.

Stage hypnotists choose individuals that are uninhibited, and more suggestible to hypnosis than the average person. I learned from the late Dr. John Kappas, founder of The Hypnosis Motivation Institute that somnambulists are the best candidates for the stage hypnotist.


Somnambulist: someone who walks about in their sleep

Hypnosis is a relaxed, suggestible, focused state of mind but you’re always in control. Here’s an example will make understanding hypnosis easier -  think of the different emotions you experience watching movies. You feel fear; you laugh, cry, and have strong feelings of love or hate.

How or why did this happen?

These emotions are triggered because you entered the state of hypnosis - consciously you know the movie is not real but your subconscious mind (home of your emotions) responds to stimuli whether they are real, replicated or imagined. However, you remain in control of you. You can walk out of the movie, turn off the television, or make a decision to not allow the movie to affect you in anyway.

A hypnotherapist/hypnotist, in essence, replaces the movie; he/she is the facilitator that helps you to reach a relaxed, suggestible, focused state of mind called hypnosis. In this state a hypnotherapist helps you to achieve goals and a stage hypnotist uses it to have fun. In both situations you remain in control, you can walk away or allow yourself to have the experience.

So, relax  family and friends - throw this myth under the bus, hypnosis is not mind control.

If you want to learn more about hypnosis/hypnotherapy - visit this link http://www.hypnosistarzana.com


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Adalia John - Hypnotherapist, mindset mastery mentor and confidence solutions coach. I help my clients to use the power of their mind to achieve their personal and `professional goals.
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Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Comparison Kills Joy: How to Stop Comparing and Start Appreciating You

What you do, the way you think, makes you beautiful.”
― Scott Westerfeld



Yes, comparison kills joy.

I’m not sure if men do this but I know for a fact that when it comes to physical beauty – women are always comparing themselves to other women, and they never measure up. 

Comparing yourself to others is a toxic and dis-empowering mind-set. It will crush your spirit and destroy your self-esteem.
Can you relate to these and/or other negative thoughts?

She is so beautiful! She has nice legs! Her breasts are bigger than mine! She's thinner! Etc.

Are you always making comparisons with other women thinking they are more physically attractive than you? Beauty is skin deep. You can never buy it during a shopping spree or find it within the glossy pages of your favorite fashion magazine.

Stop comparing yourself to other women.We are all made differently. What joy would there be, if everybody looked exactly the same?  How would we tell each other apart? And won’t men find us desperately boring? 

Stop looking at the lip-gloss she wears or the Prada bag that she carries; they may be nice to look
at. But they do little for self-worth. That comes from the belly within.

Self-appreciation comes from loving yourself. It comes from being true to yourself and appreciating yourself just the way you are. It comes from having lips that only speak well about people and eyes that only see the best in people. 

Comparison kills joy and it's a sign of low-confidence and poor self-esteem. Be confident and realize that there are many things to like about you. Be contented with these things. Someone somewhere might just be dying to have these qualities!

Comparing yourself to others is a time waster; it will only lower your confidence levels. There is no one out there like you, who has your experiences or abilities. So love yourself and be optimistic about
your possibilities. Never look down on yourself. Celebrate yourself. Show your body respect by taking care of it. 

You can also go on a night out with yourgirlfriends and feel good about life. And if the conversation starts to veer towards not being good enough, tell your friends that there are more interesting things in life to be talking about. And when you do not feel like hitting the town with your girlfriends and want to stay at home, no problem! 

Do not drag your feet around the house looking like what the cat brought in. Get dressed in your favorite clothes and put on your favorite music and dance.

Furthermore, keep a dairy and write down the things you love about you. Make a wish list and write down places you would like to see, people you would love to meet, or new skills you would like to
acquire. Things like these make you focus on the good about yourself and are a reminder that there can never be another you.

You are amazing. Give yourself permission to celebrate your uniqueness.

If you can’t stop yourself from comparing, try self-hypnosis. Hypnosis for self-confidence works – it will open the door for your joy to come back in.

Read more about the benefits of hypnosis at http://www.hypnosistarzana.com


Shameless request: if you enjoyed reading this post please share with your friends and Social Media. Thank you :-D
Are you ready for a change? Imagine what your life would be like if you made that one change. Hypnosis can help you to make powerful changes in your life
Contact me for a free consultation
Adalia John Cht
818-741-8909
Skype:adaliaj1
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Adalia John - Hypnotherapist, mindset mastery mentor and confidence solutions coach. I help my clients to use the power of their mind to achieve their personal and `professional goals.